Tag: Problem solving

  • How to Get Water Out of a Rock

    I was fortunate as a child to spend my summers in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado where our family owned a beautiful piece of property. One summer, my dad bought a building, which he intended to move onto the property where he would convert it into a guesthouse.

    There was a problem. There was no water. The intended solution was to find a mountain spring that could be tapped but none was evident. Finally, my mother said to my uncle, “Do you remember when you found water with a dowsing rod on the farm where we grew up? Why don’t you try that here?”

    My uncle admitted that he remembered not only that occasion but also a couple of other ones when he lived in the Texas Panhandle during the Dust Bowl days of the Great Depression. As a ranch hand, he found water for livestock that were dying of thirst. They dug wells, put in windmills, and saved the herd. He’d been reluctant to suggest this method of finding water because he didn’t want to provoke laughter about what was to him a very special gift.

    Dowsing RodHe went into the aspen grove, found an appropriate tree branch, and fashioned it into a “Y” shaped dowsing rod. He then went to a damp area near the site where they wanted to position the building and proceeded to do what dowsers do. I tagged along because I had to see this!

    The place where he stopped seemed as unlikely as anywhere else and was, in fact, a large boulder. He said, “There’s a spring down under this rock. Dig here.”

    In a few hours, the hole we were digging began to fill up with water and after a bit more digging the spring was opened up and water flowed. All the necessary paraphernalia was put in place and water was pumped to the house where a pump and tank were installed to provide pressure.

    My uncle believed he could find water; so did we; and our problem was solved.

    In the wilderness, God's people found themselves in a similar situation (Exodus 17:1-7), at a place where there was no water to be seen. They were thirsty and demanded water as proof that God was with them. Remember, this is same God that led them out of Egypt, through the Red Sea waters, provided fire by night and a pillar of cloud by day, quails and bread from heaven when they were hungry, etc., etc.  Moses took their case to God. God told Moses what to do. Moses did it. Water flowed from a rock. Problem solved.

    Split-Rock-of-Horeb-Square-circleMoses named the place “testing” and "complaining.” This is the way the place has been remembered from that day. It has always been associated with faultfinding. However, the place should be perhaps be remembered even more as an illustration of God's grace. For God did not berate or scold, but instead gave life-sustaining water. And, it is lesson to remember when we are faced with problems – for it illustrates how God wants us to solve our problems. For here, as in every area of life, we are saved by grace, through faith. Here's the approach to problem solving that God has revealed.

    Stop wasting energy complaining. God's people are supposed to be on a journey. When we stop to complain, we halt the procession. I recall an occasion when my friends were complaining about things. After a while, it became difficult to re-focus our conversation. We all felt that we had wasted an afternoon. We had used our energy complaining & encouraging complaints instead of creative solutions.

    The first step for Moses was to get out of the complaining crowd and on the road to the solutions. If we want to be problem solvers with God, we've first got to stop complaining.

    The next step is to tell God our problems. I don't want to suggest that God doesn’t hear complaints. But the fact is that God knows when we are complaining, we're really our own audience. God can't do much with complaints because we are blocking the way. But God can do wonders when we simply tell God what the problem is. Complaining is our way of focusing on our surrender to the problem instead of the problem itself. When we want problems solved, we'll stop complaining, evaluate the real dimensions of the problem before God, and invite God to help us solve them with the boundless resources at our Creator’s disposal.

    Then, we must listen for instructions. Too often we stop short of this step in problem solving. We tell God…then get up and proceed on our own assumptions with our own limited ideas and out of touch with his guidance. Sometimes we become like missiles without a guidance system and that's dangerous. If we can learn as Moses did to listen long enough, we'll get the instructions we need to find the best solution. God has the missing piece of every puzzle. How much more effective human beings can be if they are in touch with the very source of all creativity – the force that created the heavens and earth is at our disposal and when we ignore, we are doomed to limp along on only a fraction of the power we need to succeed.

    Then we need to surround ourselves with a support system. And, it has to be the right kind of support system. People who want to get sober and remain sober don’t hang out in bars. Married people who want healthy marriages find friends who desire the same thing.

    Moses was instructed to take some of the leaders of the people. These leaders were strong in their faith. They were leaders, not complainers and they provided the positive support that kept Moses honest, encouraged him, and upheld him in his divinely motivated task.

    Jesus surrounded himself with a support group. So, those disciples, Jesus' faith-filled support group, became the Church. When the Church is faithful, it provides each of its members kind of support needed to solve problems God's way.

    All the above is useless unless we then take positive action. The heart of faith is doing something positive, constructive, and creative to make dreams come true, to translate unseen into seen. Do you remember the story of the artist Michelangelo hauling a chunk of marble down the street. Someone asked him why he was doing it and he replied, “There’s an angel inside and I’m going to let him out.” Problem solvers find the solution and believe they can achieve it. Faith isn't faith until we do something about what we say we believe.

    Finally, when you get results, don't forget. Let the successful resolution to a complex problem serve as a reminder and a model. You'll need to be able to recall that victory the next time you are faced with a problem. The tradition is that the rock that Moses struck mysteriously followed the rest of the time they were in the wilderness. I can’t explain that tradition, but what it means is clear enough: Wherever we go, God is there before us, stays with us, and follows after us.

    Coventry FontThe Coventry Cathedral Baptistery is a huge limestone rock from the Holy Land. Whenever a person is baptized there, the image of life-sustaining water flowing from the least likely source is present. Imagine someone going in and out of that cathedral year after year seeing that rock – it follows one throughout the journey and is a constant reminder that God supplies streams of living water to quench our thirst, to cleanse us, and to buoy us up as we face whatever problems life presents.

    Do you want to be a complainer or a problem solver? You can be a problem solver if you focus your faith on solutions and trust God to help you accomplish what you cannot do alone.

    That's how to get water out of a rock!

    Blessings,

    Ron Short Blue Sig Cropped

     

     

     

     

    The Very Rev'd Ron Pogue
    Interim Rector
    St. Martin-in-the-Fields Episcopal Church
    Keller, Texas

     

  • An Epiphany From a Table

     

    We once lived in a rectory that had a beautiful dining table with extensions at each end that could be pulled out from under the top to double the size and seating capacity. The first Thanksgiving with that table, Gay and I were setting up for guests and positioning the extensions so we could seat twelve. After we pulled the extensions out, we noticed that they would not sit flush with the central tabletop because the tongue and slot on each end were not aligned. We immediately decided that at some point the two extensions had been reversed and that, by removing them and putting them in the original positions, we could make the tongues and slots align properly so the top and the extensions would fit perfectly.

    We tried that. It didn’t work because the rails attached to the extensions have to bypass each other under the table and they had to glide through channels that were positioned differently on each side.

    Obviously, we thought, someone had screwed the extensions to the wrong rails. To correct the problem, we would need to remove the screws and return the extensions to the proper rails. Upon closer inspection, it became apparent that the screw holes in the table extensions were not in the same locations on the two rails. So that wouldn’t work either.

    We felt completely defeated, but were not going to be outsmarted by a wooden table.

    Finally, we saw that the tabletop was not fastened to anything. We picked it up, turned it 180º, sat it back down, and moved the extensions into place. With the tongues and slots now in perfect alignment, everything fitted together perfectly. Problem solved!

    There is an epiphany in this incident; Effective problem solving depends upon a reliable understanding of the situation. And, sometimes the challenges in our lives are not so much problems to be solved, as they are situations to be understood. The Bible is full of examples. Here are some examples from the ministry of Jesus.

    There was a man who was born blind. Some Pharisees saw the problem and concluded that his blindness was the result of someone’s sin – either his parents’ sin or his own. Jesus’ response was to say, “His blindness is not the result of sin.” They didn’t understand the situation and that led them to a solution that wrote the blind man off. Jesus, on the other hand, saw the situation from a different point of view. The man needed healing, not condemnation. His problem was an opportunity for God’s compassion to be revealed. So Jesus healed him.

    When Jesus was teaching a huge crowd of people and mealtime was approaching, his disciples decided that the solution to the problem was to send them into the village so they could find some food. They didn’t understand the situation. Jesus did. He said, “You feed them.” They protested that there were only five loaves of bread and two fish. Again, they didn’t understand the situation. Jesus did. He told them to distribute the food. It was another opportunity for divine compassion to be displayed. After everyone was full, there were twelve baskets full of leftovers. Jesus understood that the solution to hunger was to feed people.

    King Herod was threatened when he heard that a new King of the Jews had been born. This new King might try to supplant him. So he ordered his soldiers to kill all the male babies they could find. Mary and Joseph fled into Egypt with the infant Jesus. When Jesus grew up and began his public ministry, there were those who wanted him to be their king. He tried to tell them that his kingdom would be of a different kind. Still, he continued to be a problem for those in positions of power and they tried to solve the problem by putting him to death. They didn’t understand the situation. God understood and the Resurrection was the result.

    We’ve just come through an election season when every candidate had all the solutions to all the problems. In some cases, I had to wonder if what I was hearing was in fact a solution in search of a problem. However, as we will see in the days ahead, few actually understood the situation and, because of that, many problems will remain unsolved. I would have been more inclined to vote for a candidate who admitted being stumped but was honestly committed to seeking understanding before trying to solve a problem.

    Seeking to understand before trying to solve problems is supposed to be a specialty of people of faith. The King James Version puts it this way, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding” (Proverbs 4:7).

    I’ll see you in Church!

    Ron Short Blue Sig Cropped

     

     

     

     

    The Very Reverend Ron Pogue
    Interim Dean
    St. Andrew's Cathedral
    Jackson, Mississippi

     

     

  • An Epiphany From a Table

    The dining table in the rectory has extensions at each end that can be pulled out from under the top to double the size and seating capacity.  Last week, Gay and I were setting up for guests and positioning the extensions so we could seat twelve at the dining table.  After we pulled the extensions out, we
    Table Gapnoticed that they would not sit flush with the central tabletop because the tongue and slot on each end were not aligned.  We immediately decided that at some point the two extensions had been reversed and that, by removing them and putting them in the original positions, we could make the tongues and slots align properly so the top and the extensions would fit perfectly.

    We tried that.  It didn’t work because the rails attached to the extensions have to bypass each other under the table and they had to glide through channels that were positioned differently on each side. 

    Obviously, we thought, someone had screwed the extensions to the wrong rails.  To correct the problem, we would need to remove the screws and return the extensions to the proper rails.  Upon closer inspection, it became apparent that the screw holes in the table extensions were not in the same locations on the two rails.  So that wouldn’t work either.

    We felt completely defeated, but were not going to be outsmarted by a wooden table.

    Finally, we saw that the tabletop was not fastened to anything.  We picked it up, turned it 180º, sat it back down, and moved the extensions into place.  With the tongues and slots now in perfect alignment, everything fitted together perfectly.  Problem solved!

    Table FitThere is an epiphany in this incident; Effective problem solving depends upon a reliable understanding of the situation. And, sometimes the challenges in our lives are not so much problems to be solved, as they are situations to be understood.  The Bible is full of examples.  Here are some examples from the ministry of Jesus.

    There was a man who was born blind.  Some Pharisees saw the problem and concluded that his blindness was the result of someone’s sin – either his parents’ sin or his own.  Jesus’ response was to say, “His blindness is not the result of sin.”  They didn’t understand the situation and that led them to a solution that wrote the blind man off.  Jesus, on the other hand, saw the situation from a different point of view.  The man needed healing, not condemnation.  His problem was an opportunity for God’s compassion to be revealed.  So Jesus healed him.

    When Jesus was teaching a huge crowd of people and mealtime was approaching, his disciples decided that the solution to the problem was to send them into the village so they could find some food.  They didn’t understand the situation.  Jesus did.  He said, “You feed them.”  They protested that there were only five loaves of bread and two fish.  Again, they didn’t understand the situation.  Jesus did.  He told them to distribute the food.  It was another opportunity for divine compassion to be displayed.  After everyone was full, there were twelve baskets full of leftovers.  Jesus understood that the solution to hunger was to feed people.

    King Herod was threatened when he heard that a new King of the Jews had been born.  This new King might try to supplant him.  So he ordered his soldiers to kill all the male babies they could find.  Mary and Joseph fled into Egypt with the infant Jesus.  When Jesus grew up and began his public ministry, there were those who wanted him to be their king.  He tried to tell them that his kingdom would be of a different kind.  Still, he continued to be a problem for those in positions of power and they tried to solve the problem by putting him to death.  They didn’t understand the situation.  God understood and the Resurrection was the result.

    We’ve just come through an election season when every candidate had all the solutions to all the problems.  In some cases, I had to wonder if what I was hearing was in fact a solution in search of a problem.  However, as we will see in the days ahead, few actually understood the situation and, because of that, many problems will remain unsolved.  I would have been more inclined to vote for a candidate who admitted being stumped but was honestly committed to seeking understanding before trying to solve a problem.

    Seeking to understand before trying to solve problems is supposed to be a specialty of people of faith.  The King James Version puts it this way, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding” (Proverbs 4:7).

    Ron Short Sig Blue

  • Managing Polarities

    On Monday, I participated in a workshop on "Polarity Management" led by Pastor Roy
    Managing Ploarities Cover Oswald, co-author with Pastor Barry Johnson of Managing Polarities in Congregations: Eight Keys for Thriving Faith
    Communities
    . In Monday's workshop, we explored the principles found in the book.

    A polarity is a pair of interdependent yet seemingly oppositional truths. When a conflict occurs around a polarity, Oswald and Johnson write, "both sides will be right, and they will need each other to experience the whole truth."  While problems can be solved and conflicts can be resolved, polarities are indestructible and must be managed.  These are important distinctions for Church leaders to make at every level, congregation, judicatory, denomination, and ecumenical.

    Oswald and Johnson devote a chapter to each of the following polarities:

    (1) Staying rooted in the faith's heritage while fostering creativity in faith life;

    (2) Nurturing mission while maintaining a healthy institution;

    (3) Creating a stable congregation but one that is able to embrace change;

    (4) Supporting clergy leadership while encouraging lay participation;

    (5) Responding to members' needs while simultaneously caring for others;

    (6) Manifesting God's unconditional love while challenging people to grow and to serve;

    (7) Making it easy to become a member while ensuring that membership has meaning;

    (8) Helping members fulfill their callings while ensuring that all tasks of congregational life and ministry are accomplished.

    The workshop, like the book, showed the positive and negative aspects of each pole, how to recognize when imbalance is occurring between them, and how to address and correct the imbalance.

    For those not currently experiencing conflict, polarity management can be a good prevention tool. For those in the midst of conflict around a polarity, it would help people recognize the legitimacy of both sides and create a more cooperative context for the ongoing dialogue and activity around the polarizing issue.

    Maybe if followers of Jesus Christ become better at managing the polarities within their communities, they can more effectively address polarities in the culture.

    Ron