Tag: perspective

  • An Epiphany From a Table

     

    We once lived in a rectory that had a beautiful dining table with extensions at each end that could be pulled out from under the top to double the size and seating capacity. The first Thanksgiving with that table, Gay and I were setting up for guests and positioning the extensions so we could seat twelve. After we pulled the extensions out, we noticed that they would not sit flush with the central tabletop because the tongue and slot on each end were not aligned. We immediately decided that at some point the two extensions had been reversed and that, by removing them and putting them in the original positions, we could make the tongues and slots align properly so the top and the extensions would fit perfectly.

    We tried that. It didn’t work because the rails attached to the extensions have to bypass each other under the table and they had to glide through channels that were positioned differently on each side.

    Obviously, we thought, someone had screwed the extensions to the wrong rails. To correct the problem, we would need to remove the screws and return the extensions to the proper rails. Upon closer inspection, it became apparent that the screw holes in the table extensions were not in the same locations on the two rails. So that wouldn’t work either.

    We felt completely defeated, but were not going to be outsmarted by a wooden table.

    Finally, we saw that the tabletop was not fastened to anything. We picked it up, turned it 180º, sat it back down, and moved the extensions into place. With the tongues and slots now in perfect alignment, everything fitted together perfectly. Problem solved!

    There is an epiphany in this incident; Effective problem solving depends upon a reliable understanding of the situation. And, sometimes the challenges in our lives are not so much problems to be solved, as they are situations to be understood. The Bible is full of examples. Here are some examples from the ministry of Jesus.

    There was a man who was born blind. Some Pharisees saw the problem and concluded that his blindness was the result of someone’s sin – either his parents’ sin or his own. Jesus’ response was to say, “His blindness is not the result of sin.” They didn’t understand the situation and that led them to a solution that wrote the blind man off. Jesus, on the other hand, saw the situation from a different point of view. The man needed healing, not condemnation. His problem was an opportunity for God’s compassion to be revealed. So Jesus healed him.

    When Jesus was teaching a huge crowd of people and mealtime was approaching, his disciples decided that the solution to the problem was to send them into the village so they could find some food. They didn’t understand the situation. Jesus did. He said, “You feed them.” They protested that there were only five loaves of bread and two fish. Again, they didn’t understand the situation. Jesus did. He told them to distribute the food. It was another opportunity for divine compassion to be displayed. After everyone was full, there were twelve baskets full of leftovers. Jesus understood that the solution to hunger was to feed people.

    King Herod was threatened when he heard that a new King of the Jews had been born. This new King might try to supplant him. So he ordered his soldiers to kill all the male babies they could find. Mary and Joseph fled into Egypt with the infant Jesus. When Jesus grew up and began his public ministry, there were those who wanted him to be their king. He tried to tell them that his kingdom would be of a different kind. Still, he continued to be a problem for those in positions of power and they tried to solve the problem by putting him to death. They didn’t understand the situation. God understood and the Resurrection was the result.

    We’ve just come through an election season when every candidate had all the solutions to all the problems. In some cases, I had to wonder if what I was hearing was in fact a solution in search of a problem. However, as we will see in the days ahead, few actually understood the situation and, because of that, many problems will remain unsolved. I would have been more inclined to vote for a candidate who admitted being stumped but was honestly committed to seeking understanding before trying to solve a problem.

    Seeking to understand before trying to solve problems is supposed to be a specialty of people of faith. The King James Version puts it this way, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding” (Proverbs 4:7).

    I’ll see you in Church!

    Ron Short Blue Sig Cropped

     

     

     

     

    The Very Reverend Ron Pogue
    Interim Dean
    St. Andrew's Cathedral
    Jackson, Mississippi

     

     

  • Seeing Things in a New Light

    Isn’t it amazing what can happen in a relationship when one sees another in an entirely new light?

    Being with my wife during childbirth was such an experience for me.  I saw a strength and courage in her I had never realized was there and it was awesome to me.  We were carried to a new level in our bond with each other through that experience.  I saw her in a new light.

    A silly incident disrupted a friendship with a person who was like a brother to me.  For months we were estranged and did not speak. Then, a time came when we were both involved in an event from which neither of us could gracefully escape.  He was experiencing a serious physical problem at the time and was walking in procession just ahead of me.  I saw him take the arm of the clergyman who was walking beside him to steady himself as pain ran through his body.  My cold heart melted and I felt enormous compassion and concern for my friend.  The next day we had lunch and never again did we let anything interfere with our friendship.  We saw each other in a new light.

    A young man was assessed a stiff penalty after his third DUI offense. Someone close to him recog-nized what was happening and confronted him at the risk of their relationship.  It was the most loving thing to do.  She saw her friend in a new light and, because she did, helped him to see and accept the truth.  He decided to remove alcohol from the position of supreme commander of his life.

    Peter, James, and John were the inner circle of disciples.  They probably knew Jesus better than anyone.  That’s why he took them with him to the holy mountain. When they looked at him, they saw the shining glory of God enveloping him and they witnessed a metamorphosis.  They recognized two other figures standing with Jesus; Moses the lawgiver and Elijah the prophet.  Suddenly they realized something about Jesus they hadn’t understood before: Both the law and the prophets pointed to God’s Messiah and Jesus, their rabbi and friend, is that Messiah.  Perhaps Jesus understood his mission in a new way as he heard the voice of God saying, “This is my own dear Son, with whom I am well pleased – listen to him.”

    After they came down from that mountain, Jesus set his face toward Jerusalem and the cross.  What he and his disciples had experienced gave them the new perspective to bear what lay ahead of them.

    The Transfiguration is a story about transition.  Anytime we see in a new light, something within us changes.  We, too, need those epiphanies when God helps us to see people, places, events, and circumstances in a new light.

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